我又站在这片土地上：沙巴，风下之乡

相隔了一个月的光阴，我又回到了这个和我家相隔了一个南中国海的地方，沙巴。它有个很优美的别称，称为风下之乡。虽然相隔了一片海，可是它还是属于马来西亚的国土，并不属于国外。

在家的那段日子，生活过得很悠闲，可以说整天无所事事，顶多洗洗衣，上上网，聊聊天，一天就溜过去啦。哈哈。

现在回来沙巴了，我的人生就如要“言归正传”，回到做个学生应该做的事了。

要回来的前一天，内心很不安，很紧张，原来这是预感。

另一天，果真必须经历两场风风雨雨才得以安定下来。

拖着疲惫的身心回来后，本想好好睡一觉，补一补眠，充一充电，

可是我却睡不着，奇怪我就是有这样的习惯，每每换环境睡的第一晚都会失眠，

就算自己家也一样。奇怪，奇怪，真奇怪。

希望明天会更好。睡得好，睡得饱，事情顺顺利利，哈哈。 加油。

脑袋在又累又想睡又睡不着的状态写的文章，如感无聊，请多多包涵，哈哈。

It's Christmas eve and Christmas tmr

First, I'm here to wish my Christian's Friends

Merry Christmas!!! ^^

I know for Christian, 

it is not a day only to exchange present (may applicable for some non-Christian couple, haha)

but these are the day to gather and share the joy with family

and celebrate Jesus birthday (right?)

I can see many of my friends already started to be very excited nowadays 

because Christmas is around the corner

They planned what to cook for family and what gift to be give for their love one

Actually for me, these two days might just another two normal days for me, haha

Maybe because i am not Christian, and my family don't have tradition to celebrate it

But i know, this is a warm and happy festival to be celebrated for most of my friends

So, I'm here to wish you all Merry Christmas~~~

and ya, i got a Christmas Card for you all, hope you all like it, haha. 

Christmas Card for YOU

Please click on the link above.

I get it from an email, i found it quite nice and sweet, so I would like to share it here with you all.

Hope you all like it :)

Favicon, the small icon beside the blog title

Recently, i found out that one of my friend's blog had changed the usual blogger orange icon beside blog title. So, my curiosity had urged me to looks for ways to change it and to make my blog more unique and nice. Many of the blog had mentioned about it, but most of it required a lot of steps and complicated,  Finally, i found out this blog: http://findhow.blogspot.com/2007/10/tutorial-how-to-change-your-blogger.html. It shows the most simple ways to change the favicon. I had changed my orange blogger icon to love shaped cloud ady.

1) Create and design an image and save it as jpg, gif, png & ico (i tried jpg and gif, the ori blogger said ico is preferred, but harder to upload, i think harder because it needed converter). The preferred resolution is 16x16, but i tried 22x22 and 36x36, both also works. (the ori blogger thinks 36x36 is the limit).

2) Upload the icon to photobucket and copy the Direct link.

3) Go to "Dashboard">> "Design" tab>>"Edit HTML". (You can press "Download Full Template" first, to save your original version of html, if you scare later will change the html and don't know how to reverse back)
4+5 (see the picture below)

4) At the edit template (html) area, find (press Ctrl+f) to find the highlighted html
5) Insert the 2 lines html codes in the picture (but replace the url = the blue line highlight) with the Direct link you copied at step 2 from photobucket. (Sorry, can't write html in its blog post, so please refer the picture for the code)
6) Save the template, and view your blog

(the ori blogger recommend to close your page, delete the temporary internet files from your browser and reopen your page in order to see the changes, but i can see the changes directly after pressing "View Blog" in Mozilla Firefox Browser.

(You can also go to the original blog source to copy its html with ease.)

Have fun making one of your special blogger icon! =)

Mine:

请你不要再说这个字

如题目所提，有些字，当你对别人说了后，有可能会伤害到别人的心

我有一个朋友，最近就常常向我用一个字：WHATEVER

可能我讲话比较直接，有时让人受不了

但每当我在她的言词中意会到她的不爽时，

我也尽力的解释与分析我所说的话，怕她误解我的原意，甚至有时还会祈求原谅

可是往往换回来的就是一句：WHATEVER

让我感觉很受伤, very hurt.

因为我感觉，WHATEVER = 随便你

意思=我不理你，I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU

如果朋友间，互不关心，互不理睬，那会变成怎样啊？

突然想起面子书上有人写过：

对不起是一种真诚，没关系是一种风度，

如果你付出了真诚，却得不到风度，那只能说明对方的无知与粗俗

我不期待对方会直接说没关系 （毕近我可能有一点点得罪别人的感受）

可是至少该慢慢谈，不要一下子就 WHATEVER嘛

那要让我如何接话呢？

这又让我想起面子书上所提过的字：哦

“哦”，是个敷衍的字眼，就是你懒得和对方说话时所说的话

而每当有人写这个字时，也会让对方不知道要如何接话。

我感觉人与人之间相处，一定会有摩擦，

所以要好好理解，互相容忍与原谅

凡事应该坦言相告，不要意有所指

不然每每讲话都好像会随时掀起骂战

那还有什么意思。

我本来是个很少会生气的人，可是这次真的有点被气到伤到

可能太过关心我这个好朋友的感受了吧

真希望以后我们再在网上谈天时，大家可以客客气气，既往不咎，无所不谈。

请不要再对我说 WHATEVER 啦！ 

P/S: 我的那位朋友应该不大可能会看这篇文章，其实我只想发泄我所想说的，
各位部落客的朋友们，不好意思让你们看到我的负面情绪了。