Showing posts with label mood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mood. Show all posts

Monday, August 29, 2011

Target

Can a person live without a target?
I think that if a person had no target at all, his life should be lifeless.
Because most probably his life would remain eat, tv and sleep without any contribution.

During study time, our main target is to get good academic result,
while on the same time we will have fun with our school friends by having outings.

After study, we will face a milestone in which we need to transform our life target by changing lifestyle.
~from studying to working. 

After getting a job, people will tend to reset their main target on their job.
They will try their best to get the work done, so they are able to obtain a satisfactory amount of salary. 
By having the money, they would spend it on things that they think is worth and enjoy the most.

Although I'm not sure peoples' main targets 
are study and job?
or in order to get friend and fun, so they willing to study and work? 
or both? But at least there are targets.

Currently, I'm still finding my life target.
Hope I can pass across the milestone and succeed in the life transformation process in a very soon time. 

Goodbye August, Welcome September;
A beautiful month is awaiting for us. 

Saturday, August 6, 2011

我的部落格

我的部落格是个
曾经灿烂的国度
被人遗忘的角落

相信很多人的部落格都遭遇同样情况
可能有时个人没有心情,事情,时间经营它
也不想让负面情绪宣泄于大众传播空间
种种的因素让我们逐渐遗忘这个曾经喜爱的国度

今天有感而发的这篇文,
是期望可以重兴我的部落格,
但却感觉有些许的无能为力,
但我相信持之以恒必能成功。

Saturday, December 4, 2010

请你不要再说这个字

如题目所提,有些字,当你对别人说了后,有可能会伤害到别人的心
我有一个朋友,最近就常常向我用一个字:WHATEVER
可能我讲话比较直接,有时让人受不了
但每当我在她的言词中意会到她的不爽时,
我也尽力的解释与分析我所说的话,怕她误解我的原意,甚至有时还会祈求原谅
可是往往换回来的就是一句:WHATEVER
让我感觉很受伤, very hurt.
因为我感觉,WHATEVER = 随便你
意思=我不理你,I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU
如果朋友间,互不关心,互不理睬,那会变成怎样啊?
突然想起面子书上有人写过:
对不起是一种真诚,没关系是一种风度,
如果你付出了真诚,却得不到风度,那只能说明对方的无知与粗俗
我不期待对方会直接说没关系 (毕近我可能有一点点得罪别人的感受)
可是至少该慢慢谈,不要一下子就 WHATEVER嘛
那要让我如何接话呢?
这又让我想起面子书上所提过的字:哦
“哦”,是个敷衍的字眼,就是你懒得和对方说话时所说的话
而每当有人写这个字时,也会让对方不知道要如何接话。

我感觉人与人之间相处,一定会有摩擦,
所以要好好理解,互相容忍与原谅
凡事应该坦言相告,不要意有所指
不然每每讲话都好像会随时掀起骂战
那还有什么意思。
我本来是个很少会生气的人,可是这次真的有点被气到伤到
可能太过关心我这个好朋友的感受了吧
真希望以后我们再在网上谈天时,大家可以客客气气,既往不咎,无所不谈。
请不要再对我说 WHATEVER 啦! 

P/S: 我的那位朋友应该不大可能会看这篇文章,其实我只想发泄我所想说的,
各位部落客的朋友们,不好意思让你们看到我的负面情绪了。

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